He led from the front and expected us all to live up to his extraordinary standards. There are times we failed, but we loved the way he taught and taught and taught. There was no giving up.
Laura, Olivia and Ben with Lord Eric Pickles
Ben was not only an exceptionally charismatic and passionate individual. He was also one who has made a lasting difference to our world. We’d like to highlight just two examples.
Firstly: personal. The impact he made on countless thousands of people cannot be overstated. To meet Ben, listen to his testimony, be in conversation with him, was to be subject to his charm and passion – you didn’t want to let him down. It was impressive to see this effect on thousands of young people and quite extraordinary to see the same impression on politicians, celebrities and senior leaders in all walks of life.
Secondly: institutional. Ben instinctively understood that in addition to impacting on individuals before him, national and international legacies could only be created and sustained through the establishment and long-term development of organisations. He realized too that no one organization could achieve all that is necessary in the Holocaust field. His active, engaged, meaningful involvement in the setting up and support over decades of so many is quite simply astonishing. 45 Aid Society, Holocaust Memorial Day Trust, Lake District Holocaust Project, Holocaust Educational Trust, Claims Conference, International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance…the list goes on.
We’re writing these words in the sunshine in the London suburbs, not far from where Ben and his wonderful wife, Arza, brought up their family. It’s immeasurably distant from the trauma Ben experienced during the Holocaust – remote in geography, in years and in stability.
Ben knew, however, we can never take this sunshiny stability for granted, and that we must continue to work tirelessly to ensure the Holocaust is not forgotten. And that what we learn about and from it, spurs us to treat others with respect, to be kind and generous in heart, and to be courageous in challenging prejudice. To be like Ben.
Olivia Marks-Woldman OBE is the Chief Executive of the Holocaust Memorial Day Trust and Laura Marks OBE is Chair of the Holocaust Memorial Day Trust.