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A Jewish-Asian love affair

A new book asks if there are similarities between Jews and Asians - and if these similarities mean that relationships between the two will be disproportionately successful?

August 25, 2016 10:51
Mike and Sani Jackson celebrate Jewishly

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Jessica Weinstein,

Jessica Weinstein

5 min read

Amy Chua, the notorious "Tiger Mom", described it as the "triple package". This is the idea that minority groups such as Jews and Asians experience disproportionate success because of shared values, which spring from the immigrant experience - namely insecurity and outsiderdom, "good impulse control", and what she refers to as a "superiority complex". It essentially boils down to the sense that immigrants have to work harder to succeed, something that characterised both Chua's Asian background and her husband, Jed Rubenfeld's, Jewish upbringing.

But are there more similarities between Jews and Asians - and do these similarities mean that relationships between the two will be disproportionately successful?

"Possibly," is the answer from Helen Kim and Noah Leavitt, co-authors of JewAsian: Race, Religion, and Identity for America's Newest Jews and themselves a "JewAsian" inter-racial couple - Kim is second-generation immigrant Korean - who became interested in the merging of the two cultures when they started dating 20 years ago.

"When we first started going out, we had a mix of questions surrounding our interactions," says Leavitt. "What did it mean when two people like ourselves got together?"