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The right way to deal with a will

April 7, 2011 11:03
A disputed will can be a source of real anguish to families

By

Jonathan Goldberg

3 min read

Heather from Glasgow writes: My elder brother died recently in his early sixties, after a long illness. He was a successful author and academic, and his books sell well. One is the leading textbook in its field. He spent much of his life teaching in American universities, but he came back to die in the UK and never renounced his British citizenship.

He rarely visited our elderly parents, probably because he had rebelled as a youngster against their traditional Orthodox lifestyle. Nonetheless he provided for my mother in recent years after our father suffered business reverses and then died. I have a letter which he wrote to me a few months ago in anticipation of his death, assuring me in formal terms that he was setting aside £250,000 in trust in his will to continue to provide an income for my mother afterwards.

His second marriage is to a much younger woman who survives him with their two young daughters. She has her own successful career, and I judge her to be in a good financial position in life. She has just rung to inform me that the monthly allowance to my mother is now ceasing, that his will left everything to her and her children, and that there is no trust in favour of my mother as his letter to me had promised. The situation is especially difficult because I do not want to appear suspicious of her, or risk alienating my mother still further from her grandchildren. What can I do?

Heather, I sympathise with your dilemma. Facts such as these, where money and family relationships conflict, are notoriously explosive fuel for legal disputes. You will need to tread carefully.