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The JC letters page, November 3

Dr Stanley Jacobs, David Lee, Daniel J. Levy and Deborah Maccoby share their views with JC readers

November 2, 2017 11:18
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Selfless goodness

May I comment on Rabbi Chanan Atlas’s Lech Lecha Thought For The Week (Genesis 16:6).  While an “over-righteous act” may well lead to cruelty, a “selfless” act of goodness should not. They are categorically different.

The former is ideologically motivated, bound by ideas, and, thereby, fraught with dire consequence. The latter is responding purely to the needs of a situation. It should naturally embrace a good overall result. 

In the case of Abraham’s wife, Sarah, I doubt very much if it can be so confidentially asserted, as does Rabbi Atlas, that her action in giving her handmaid Hagar to a disconsolate childless Abraham was such a “selfless” one. Sarah is blaming herself for their childless state. So it is much more likely her action is based on relieving her feelings of guilt and inadequacy as well as assuaging the bad feeling of her husband towards her. In this, it is more of a “selfish” act. Indeed, we subsequently see her action leading to much suffering for everybody.  

Although it is very, very hard to say, and easy to in retrospect, but if only both parents had the faith to wait their son would still have appeared.
We should also remember the young Hagar — in reality, a bonded servant or slave —  being given no choice whether or not to sleep with her elderly 85 year old master.