The retired secretary and shop assistant has volunteered at the independent South London care home for nearly 30 years
I was sitting next to the chairman of the Nightingale Friendship Club at Wimbledon and District Reform Synagogue and was persuaded to come and help. It was a case of "Once involved, forever hooked!"
I visit residents who are in St George's Hospital as well as keeping the Friendship Club going by running weekly bingo sessions. I also work in the shop along with my husband. I befriend many residents, I know them well and will often accompany them on outings.
I love people and enjoy making residents smile. I love to sit down and have a chat, I am interested in their lives and I hate the idea of older people being invisible just because they are no longer so active. I find it sad and unnecessary and I am not afraid to advocate on behalf of a resident if I see a need.
Friendship Club outings, when the day is spent making sure the residents have a good time. I was once visiting a resident who was in a now closed-down hospital in Clapham. This feisty lady had been put in a shabby room and the paintwork was appalling so I was worried that flakes of paint would fall on her or in her food. I told her that I would get her moved back into the ward. She replied: "Oh no, I don't want to go back with all those common people, but I will borrow your umbrella to protect me." So I left her with my umbrella and exited the hospital in a fit of giggles.