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A tribute to Solly, lost but in our hearts

Lawrence Cohen pays tribute to Solomon Rodkoff at the end of the year that marked the 75th anniversary of his death in Normandy, 1944

December 30, 2019 10:59
Solly Rodkoff in uniform with his brother Myer
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A yellowing page torn from the JC of July 16th 1943 lists the casualties; those killed in action and on active service, the wounded, the missing and the prisoners of war. At the foot of the page there is a photo of my cousin, Sylvia, Corporal S Fenton, from the Mile End Road in the uniform of the Women’s Auxiliary Air Force who has been Mentioned in Dispatches and listed in the King’s Birthday Honours. Seventy years later I interviewed Sylvia and recorded her remarkable story on video, so her great grandchildren should know her, now that she too has passed.

But what of the fallen? For those of us born to the survivors, there are no memories, only names, mentioned in passing at Seder tables, or images in a family album. We never knew them, and even those who did are getting fewer and frailer with each year that passes. How to honour the Jews who served in the British armed forces and were lost? Here is one story pieced together from recollections of a fast receding past, from a letter, from a photograph, from a visit to a grave, and, more recently, from an internet search.

At a hearing convened by the London Beth Din at the end of World War Two, a man and a woman come before a rabbinic court to perform the ritual of halitzah. The man testifies that he is not willing to take the childless widow of his deceased brother for his wife. In response, the woman removes the shoe from the man’s left foot, spits into it and makes the declaration: thus shall be done to the man who will not build up his brother’s house. She is now free to marry whom she chooses. In reality, the hearing is a formality; the man already has a wife and a child of his own and there is another on the way.

The man is my father-in-law to be, Myer Rodkoff. The woman is Sally, nee Sarah Bloom, the widow of Soloman Rodkoff. At the end of the year that marked the 75th anniversary of his death, in Normandy on Tammuz 7 5704, June 28 1944, this is his tribute.