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'I've set up home in Hackney because I didn't want to be an unthinking Jew'

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"Why Hackney? Because I didn’t want to bring my children up in a Jewish bubble. I grew up in Barnet, and I wanted my raise my family somewhere a bit cooler, somewhere with a bit more edge,” says Daniel Stander.

On the Hackney street where Stander lives there is a Turkish mosque, a Baptist church and an Orthodox synagogue. At his kids’ school you can count the number of Turkish children in their classes on the fingers of both hands. “You’re not Jewish by default in Hackney, it’s an active choice,” he says. “This will probably look awful in print, but I’ve set up home in Hackney because I don’t want to be an unthinking Jew.”

Actually, he has done more than simply set up home in Hackney, a part of London his parents could not leave fast enough in the Seventies when they and other Jews of their generation moved out of their East End council flats and into north London’s tree-lined suburbs. Stander has played a particularly active role in its Jewish life. Until recently he was the chair of New Stoke Newington Shul, a community under the umbrella of the Masorti movement which has been meeting in members’ homes and local community centres for festivals and simchas since 2007.

If a synagogue’s membership roll is an indicator of its wellbeing, this Hackney shul is in rude health. Even though it doesn’t have its own building and only acquired a rabbi five years ago it now has 130 members, half of whom are under the age of 40. And over the past two years the number of bnei mitzvah and weddings celebrated by the community has increased so greatly it recently appointed Daniel’s partner Annie, a solicitor, as the shul’s marriages secretary. This means members can now stand under the chuppah at their community centre and have their marriage recognised by the state at the same time.