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Sibling rivalries: this week’s parashah, Vayiggash
“Judah stepped forward” Genesis 44:18
December 24, 2025 16:39
“Judah stepped forward” Genesis 44:18
December 24, 2025 16:39Our parashah opens with a confrontation that reverberates through time – Joseph facing Judah. The brothers reconcile, and yet, despite the tears and embraces, the reunion cannot erase the fracture running through Jacob's family.
Evidently, these fault lines are structural, woven into our people's story. Judah, leader among Leah's sons, stands opposite Joseph, firstborn of beloved Rachel. The rivalry of two sisters becomes the inheritance of their children.
The conflict endures through the generations. Centuries later, Solomon's kingdom ruptures on precisely this division as the nation splits into two: Judah in the south, Ephraim (Joseph's line) in the north. And until the Exile, the rift is never healed. Even our messianic hopes reflect this duality: one Messiah “son of Joseph”, and another “son of David” from Judah.
It is Ezekiel in our haftarah who offers a transformative vision: "Take a tree and write on it, 'to Judah.' Take another and write, 'to Ephraim.' Join them together into one tree" (Ezekiel 37:15-18).
This is grafting, not a merger through elimination, but synthesis. Each tree brings its uniqueness. The union produces not compromise but wholeness: one tree embodying the strengths of both.
The rabbis suggested distinct spiritual typologies in these brothers. Joseph embodies the universal – the ability to navigate multiple worlds. He speaks seventy languages, the Midrash tells us. He is economist, diplomat, translator between cultures.
In contrast, Judah is more deeply connected to a particular Jewish sensibility. The name Yehuda” contains the four divine letters of the Tetragrammaton; the Midrash sees Judah sent ahead by Jacob to Goshen to build institutions that would secure the religious integrity of Jacob’s clan – “Judah became his sanctuary” (Psalm 114).
These represent competing visions – engagement versus insularity, the mundane and the holy. But must the universal necessarily clash with the particular? Must the worldly clash with the sacred? It was Rav Avraham Yitzchak Kook (in his eulogy for Herzl) who suggested that much as a human being is an amalgam of body and soul, so the nation needs to integrate these diffuse elements in unison.
Deep forces conflict and collide; and rifts and disagreement are an enduring feature of the Jewish people. But Ezekiel’s metaphor suggests another possibility – not that one brother defeats the other, but that Joseph and Judah learn that they need one another: “I will take Israel from the nations ... I will make them one… with one king over all of them and they will never again... be divided into two kingdoms.”
Image: Joseph and his brothers by Franz Anton Maulbertsch c 1750 (Wikimedia Commons)
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