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How Orthodox can you get?

The unpleasant consequences of ‘ultra-Orthodoxy’ are at last being addressed in Israel

November 26, 2009 11:02

By

Geoffrey Alderman,

Geoffrey Alderman

3 min read

Some years ago, my wife and I attended in London what is usually called an “ultra-Orthodox” wedding — though, in spite of the fact that I am myself guilty of using this term, I do not like it. Two hundred years ago — not a long time in terms of the history of the Jewish people — the phrase “ultra Orthodox,” denoting a particularly fearful, obdurate and immoderate form of Orthodoxy, did not exist. Indeed the term “Orthodox” did not then exist. Jews were Jews, some more observant, some less so.

The Jewish world was then highly decentralised. We had, it is true, a common body of core religious texts that governed social relations and much else besides purely theological tenets. But even over the interpretation of these there was no agreement (far from it!). Each Jewish community, town or village where Jews lived, had its own rabbi and, though these religious leaders were naturally in communication with each other, each was autonomous. What is more, a ruling made in one community — for instance to recognise someone as Jewish — was invariably recognised by and within other communities.

Paradoxically, the very decentralised nature of the Jewish world acted as a powerful unifying agent. When my two Polish-born grandmothers, who had arrived in England around 110 years ago, wished to get married, how did they prove they were Jewish? The answer seems to be that they simply produced reliable witnesses, from Poland, who knew their families. Nothing else was apparently required or demanded.

But to return to the “ultra-Orthodox” wedding my wife and I attended some years ago. A fellow guest was Rabbi Menachem Gelley, senior dayan of the United Synagogue’s Beth Din. Rabbi Gelley gave an address that was admirably learned, mercifully brief and certainly to the point. As I recall, he paid special tribute to the bride and to her deep devotion to her faith. I went out of my way to congratulate Rabbi Gelley on his remarks. But what he knew, and what I knew (but what I suspect most of the guests did not know) was that the bride was a convert. This modest bride — whom we could rest assured would never be seen at a disco, in jeans or wearing an open-necked blouse — was not just a convert. She was an ultra-Orthodox convert.

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