The Muswell Hill one-form entry school is a tight-knit community
July 18, 2025 07:31
A Muswell Hill primary school founded 13 years ago has celebrated its bnei mitzvah with a ceremony using tallitot, hand-printed and sewn by the children.
Eden Primary, which opened in September 2011, held a bar mitzvah service, where each class led an element, including reciting the Shema and singing Ma Tovu. Children read from the Torah and led a Dvar Torah reflection on the portion of Balak, followed by a party with a kiddush, glitter tattoos and live music. Parents were invited to the afternoon Kol HaNe’arim ceremony, during which teachers blessed each class under their tallitot.
Reading from the Torah (Photo: Eden Primary)[Missing Credit]
The head of Eden Primary Helen Graff said: “As Eden marks its bar mitzvah year – a symbolic moment of growth, responsibility and reflection – we wanted to honour, not just the milestone of turning 13, but the spiritual and emotional journey of all our children. In Jewish tradition, a bar or bat mitzvah marks the coming of age and a new stage of responsibility. For us at Eden, this milestone provided a powerful opportunity to reflect on what it means to grow, belong and be blessed within a community.”
In line with the school’s love of creativity, the children made their own tallitot from scratch. Every class selected pasokim (verses), and each pupil printed and painted a different square for their class tallit and sewed it together using a sewing machine.
Graff said: “Every single part of the tallitot project was created by and for the children, which was amazing, and it meant that every child, irrespective of religious background or belief, was involved. It was a really powerful visual reminder about the centrality of children in Jewish life and learning.”
The children show their hand-made tallitot (Photo: Eden Primary)[Missing Credit]
The portion Balak was particularly apt for the children because it contains the Ma Tovu prayer that the children learn and sing throughout their school journey at Eden.
When the school opened it was under head teacher Jo Sassienie, who played a key role in building Eden and designed the structure, alongside architects and the co-founder Peter Kessler.
After Sassienie’s departure in 2023, Helen Graff – formerly the school’s deputy head – took up headship. The school has remained one-form entry, with a tight-knit community, where strong bonds are formed among families.
Eden Primary's bnei mitzvah ceremony (Photo: Eden Primary)[Missing Credit]
Graff said that Eden Primary prided itself as being a Jewish school where everybody was welcome. Its ethos, she said, meant it embraced children from across the spectrum of Jewish belief and the wider community on an equal basis.
Graff added: “We really wanted to highlight spiritual development, not just through academic achievement, but also through ritual and community belonging. We wanted to honour every child's place in the Jewish community, in a school community, create a visual and emotional experience the children will remember. [We wanted] to reinforce our identity as a values-led Jewish school with inclusive practices, and give every class a tangible, lasting contribution to a major milestone in our school's history.”
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