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Dealing well with life's only certainty

January 17, 2014 18:28
Showing support: Jewish Care wants to make a difference to those with dementia at the end of their lives

ByAnonymous, Anonymous

6 min read

Life is full of uncertainties: the only certainty we all face is death. While we may not like to talk about it, most of us, when probed, will admit to having thoughts about our own death. Some of us have strong ideas about how we would like to spend our last years, months, weeks or even minutes, but for many of us, discussing these ideas with family and friends is a step too far. We generally do not like to talk about death.

Our primary focus at Jewish Care is to develop services that enable people to age well and live meaningful lives. But we are also realistic. We know that life doesn't go on for ever. Our focus on personalised care needs to continue to the last moments of a person's life. That is why we don't want to shy away from talking about end of life.

As Jews we are reminded of the importance of the preservation of life. When we talk about end of life care, we are not in any way looking to negate the importance of preserving life, but are addressing the often sensitive issue of how people want to be cared for as their health deteriorates and they are approaching the end.

The government's dementia strategy and end of life strategy both recognise and advocate more choice and control for people in making decisions about their future care. With increasing numbers being diagnosed with dementia at an early stage, there is more opportunity to develop advanced care plans with people when they still have the capacity to make decisions about their life and death.