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Mensch of the Month
This week, we launch a new series, in which we spotlight good people doing good things
July 22, 2025 12:11
This week, we launch a new series, in which we spotlight good people doing good things
July 22, 2025 12:11Barbara Wallis is a grandmother of three and a mother of two. The member of Finchley Reform Synagogue started volunteering 18 years ago with Jewish Blind and Disabled (JBD), taking a short break when her mother passed away. She has been volunteering consistently for the last 11 years.
What drew you to the Jewish Blind and Disabled charity?
My mother went to live in one of their residences, and I have other relatives who were all very happy with JBD and its concept, so I thought it would be nice to get involved and support them.
What does your volunteering involve on a day-to-day or week-to-week basis?
It’s weekly. I help run an afternoon tea on Tuesdays; we chat and have tea. Three or four times a year, we have lunches just to try to mix things up a bit and keep things new.
How do you think your work has made a difference - either to the individuals you work with or the wider community?
They get so much enjoyment when they all come together. They all have independent lives, some even have jobs, but were it not for JBD these people wouldn’t come together and meet.
What are some of the challenges you have faced in your volunteering and how have you overcome them?
It all seems to work. I know all the managers well. I know the tenants. The afternoons we have are enjoyable for all of us.
What have you learnt from your experience of volunteering?
Mainly how satisfying it is to help others. It’s so nice to help people who need cheering up. It is nice coming away knowing your time has been spent benefiting others.
Has your time volunteering benefited you?
It has been great for me. It makes me reevaluate and appreciate things. It stops me from ever taking things for granted and has made me appreciate my life more.
What keeps you motivated to continue doing this work?
I genuinely enjoy doing what I do. I am quite fit and able to help, so as long as I’m able to help, I will.
Who or what has influenced your values and sense of responsibility towards others?
My mother. She did a lot of charity work. It followed through to me and my sister. Doing something meaningful is so good for you. In some ways, it is a hobby. I enjoy doing it and it's now part of my schedule.
What does the word "mensch” mean to you?
It means just being a good person, that’s it. If someone drops something, stop to help pick it up. Be helpful. Helping others is part of a mensch’s nature and personality.
Finally, I’m sure there are many others reading this who are interested in volunteering. What would your advice be to them?
Do it, absolutely. You will enjoy it, and the people you support will too.
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