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Send an Asbo over the fence

How a pensioner can deal with her nuisance neighbours

December 30, 2009 10:37

By

Jonathan Goldberg

3 min read

Ingrid from Sunderland writes:

I was recently widowed, and now live alone in the same terraced house where we lived throughout our 60 years of marriage. Until last year we had lovely neighbours, but then a new family moved in, who have caused us constant trouble. They play music loudly all day long, such that I have to keep my doors and windows shut to deaden the noise, and they have ignored my many polite requests to turn the volume down.

Worse still is the behaviour of their 11-year-old son, who regularly kicks his ball over the fence into our back garden and then enters without permission to retrieve it. On one occasion last summer the ball hit my late husband when he was dozing in a deckchair, distressing him greatly. As a result I began to collect his various balls and now have about 10 of them, which I refuse to return to him.

But this does not seem to have deterred him. Last weekend his father accused me angrily in the street of stealing the balls and threatened to call the police. He also threatened to cut a large hole in the fence so his son can collect them in future whenever he wants. I am at my wits end. Please can you help me ? I live on my pension and I have no money to spare for lawyers’ bills.