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Wanted: educators, not wives

January 6, 2013 11:00
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After much pressure the United Synagogue finally agreed to allow women to chair synagogue boards. Two weeks later chief rabbi-elect Ephraim Mirvis appointed Lauren Levine as a yoetzet halacha (halachic advisor) to Finchley Synagogue. It is often uncomfortable for a woman to ask sensitive halachic questions of a rabbi. This removes that barrier and so enables greater observance of the area of Jewish law that relates to marriage and sexuality.

The former might be interpreted as little more than a concession to feminist elements within the US. But the latter move indicates the start of a thoughtful approach to women's communal leadership, at least in the mind of the future chief rabbi. Of particular interest is what he told the JC: "Women should be among our top educators. Women should not only be educating women, women should be educating communities." Yet any strategy must seriously question the role of the rebbetzin.

A look at recent adverts for US rabbinic vacancies reveals that communities are no longer advertising for the position of just "rabbi" but rather they are seeking "rabbi/rebbetzin couples". If on the surface it appears that communities are finally coming to grips with the need for a formally recognised female member of the rabbinic team, in reality this serves only to undermine the female leadership role. If communities recognise the importance of female leadership, what message are they conveying by limiting the job spec to women who happen to be married to rabbis?

Unlike the academic title "rabbi" - conferred on a deserving candidate upon demonstrating competence in areas of Jewish law - the title "rebbetzin" is given to any woman who happens to be married to a rabbi. It reveals nothing about the capabilities of its bearer. It is not earned but acquired.