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Shmuley Boteach

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Sacks must heed Hillel’s advice

May 2, 2013 13:31
3 min read

I have always believed that sins of omission are much more serious than sins of commission - that the good things we fail to do are of greater consequence than the sins we commit

I once counselled a woman who caught her husband cheating. The man was utterly broken by his actions and wanted to repent. "Can you find it in your heart to forgive him?," I asked. "Never," she said, "Because he was never a husband in the first place. Had he made me feel loved and cherished, I could overlook a terrible transgression. But since he never made me feel like a wife, why would I forgive this stranger?"

This lesson should be borne in mind as we examine infractions on the part of rabbis and communal leaders. America is abuzz with the scandal of Rabbi Michael Broyde - a leading Orthodox mind - and his confession to having used fabricated identities to engage in online rabbinical discussions. Broyde, who reportedly was a leading candidate to become chief rabbi, was forced to resign from the Beth Din, his reputation in tatters.

Really? That's it. One strike and you're out? No possibility of penitence? No second chance? Is a man then really nothing more than the sum total of his most recent misdeeds, with all his virtue being lost?

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