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A Jewish friend once told me that, for a goy, I "sure use a lot of Yiddish".
"Well, yes," I replied. "There's a good reason for that, bubbeleh." And I explained why, although I'd been born and raised a Christian (up to a point), I gave free rein to my "inner Maureen Lipman".
You see, although my father had converted to Protestantism at an early age - a pragmatic move in the Hungary of the 1930s - and lived a secular life, he was forever coloured by the cultural Jewishness of his forebears. And this manifested itself most clearly in the linguistic sphere.
I'll give you a for-instance. My elegant dad took a dim view of sloppily-dressed people, whom he described as shlamposh - a Hungarianised adjective stemming from the Yiddish shlump, meaning a slob, among other things. I inherited this word from him, to the point where it's always the one that springs to mind when observing a slovenly individual. It's the perfect, onomatopoeic word.
Another word my parents liked to use (yes, even my Catholic mother) was dreck. Garbage, junk. "What's this dreck," I can still hear them say, with a look of disgust, as though examining something yucky stuck to the bottom of a shoe. An evocative word, but for full effect it must be spoken with its proper, phlegmy Yiddish-German pronunciation.
Oy Gevalt! Don’t be a shmo! Teach Yiddish in schools - anything else would be meshuggeh!
I also remember them referring occasionally to some shady character as a ganef. Although I've never used this word myself, its exotic sound instantly brings back my distant past, the way the madeleine cake did for Proust.
Of course, my family was not the only source of the Yiddishisms I so dearly cherish. You can't grow up, as I did, among the central European immigrant communities of New York City without being aware of Jewish linguistic flourishes. Not unless you're a bit of a shmo.
The German-Hungarian district known as Yorkville, on Manhattan's Upper East Side, was kosher central back in the fifties and sixties, when I was a kid. Many a Saturday did I accompany my parents as they shlepped around from deli to butcher to baker, buying the goods we needed to run our haimishe émigré household.
And then there was all the humour input during my youth, from Jewish-American comics on TV and in Hollywood - George Burns, Jack Benny and Milton Berle, Sid Caesar, Shelley Berman, Alan King, the Marx Brothers, right up to Mel Brooks and Woody Allen.
The funny guys were almost all famously Jewish in those days. And their shtick was often flavoured with a hint of Yiddish. "Hey, get a load of the shnozz on that guy!" And, "Ha - what a klutz!" And, "let me tell you about my mother-in-law. Boy, has she got some chutzpah!".
Also of lasting influence on me was the smash hit Fiddler on the Roof - first the stage show, then the movie.
One of the best musicals of all time, and as Yiddish as a matzah-ball. I've seen it at least half-a-dozen times and it always makes me cry. Some might think it a tad schmaltzy but not me. I once met its star, Topol, when I was a green young journalist.
I spotted him at a celeb-studded event I attended with a borrowed tape recorder and decided to do an impromptu interview. But I was nervous and kept pressing the wrong buttons on the recorder, while he looked at me as if I were a complete nudnik.
In my journalistic doings, a few particularly apposite Yiddish words receive near-daily usage. For example, I might say to myself: oy vey, I've got to shmooze that editor again!
But then, overcoming my reluctance, I launch into my shpiel and pitch a new story idea. If they reject it, I think: what a shmuck. But if they give me the go-ahead, I feel all warm inside: ach, such a mensch.
It occurs to me that Yiddish should be taught as a second language in British schools. It's got loads of indispensable words, is clearly more handy than French and easier to pick up. Heck, we practically speak it already.
So the idea isn't as meshuggeh as all that.
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