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Rabbi David Meyer

ByRabbi David Meyer, Rabbi David Meyer

Opinion

Don't panic - and try not to take it personally

February 25, 2016 11:07
2 min read

For hundreds of anxious parents, the wait will soon be over as they find out whether their child has been offered a place at their preferred secondary school.

The vast majority will have gained a spot; but for a sizeable minority, the offers in March will bring less welcome news. Many will be offered second or third place choices and some will be directed to a school that may not be of the ethos or educational philosophy that they want for their child.

This is not the time to argue about the rights or wrongs of faith schooling. These parents have every right to select the education of their choice for their child and are rightly frustrated when they don't get their preferred place.

Last year, I arranged a meeting with a group of these parents, and it was quite tragic to see those who felt forsaken by the community. They felt that the system was unfair, and that the schools were uncaring and disinterested.