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Honey Don’t! – Ethan Coen on his latest lesbian detective caper

The younger Coen brother says the second instalment in his lesbian genre film trilogy normalises sex – and sex toys

September 5, 2025 18:26
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Chris Evans stars as Drew Devlin in Ethan Coen’s Honey Don't! Credit: Karen Kuehn / © 2025 FOCUS FEATURES LLC
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The films of Ethan Coen, along with older brother Joel, have always been sex-free zones. Well, almost always. If their characters do manage a bit of hanky-panky, they usually get mercilessly punished. Think of their 1984 debut Blood Simple, in which John Getz’s bartender gets fatally wounded for sleeping with his boss’ wife. Or the two kidnappers in Fargo that hire prostitutes for a night in a motel (before the excrement really hits the fan).

The last few years, however, Ethan has been working with his life partner Tricia Cooke, while Joel has been off doing his own thing. Their latest movie Honey Don’t! is the second in a trilogy of lesbian-themed B-movies, following 2024’s Drive-Away Dolls. Put it down to Cooke’s influence, but both are horny as hell. “I’m from Minneapolis where we don’t have sex,” says Ethan, dryly. “She’s from Southern California. Frankly, it disturbs me a little bit. But whatever, I’m along for the ride!”

Today, they are sitting together in a Cannes hotel, shortly before Honey Don’t! is unveiled in a midnight screening. Hollywood’s most famous Jewish directing duo, the Coen Brothers are Cannes regulars – their 1991 masterpiece Barton Fink won the Palme d’Or, Best Director and Best Actor for John Turturro, the only movie ever to claim all three prizes at the festival. But after so many movies here, as co-writers/directors/producers, it’s curious to see Ethan, now 67, with Cooke by his side.

Margaret Qualley  as Honey O’Donahue in Honey Don't! 
(Photo: Karen Kuehn)Margaret Qualley as Honey O’Donahue in Honey Don't! (Photo: Karen Kuehn)[Missing Credit]

The Coens’ one-time editor, Cooke is also the mother of Ethan’s grown-up children, daughter Dusty and son Buster. When they met, back when he and Joel were making 1990 gangster pic Miller’s Crossing, he asked her out and she told him that, in fact, she was a lesbian. But over time realising she loved him, they married anyway; now they enjoy what Cooke calls a “non-traditional” relationship. They live and work together, but both have separate partners.

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