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You Are Not likeother mothers

May 3, 2012 17:32
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ByJulia Neuberger, Julia Neuberger

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This is an extraordinary book. More autobiography than novel much of the time, it has a fictional twist. The fictional Angelika was born in Germany, and spent the war in Bulgaria, just as the writer did, and returned to Germany in 1947, as the writer did, too.

This is the author's story. But it is principally the story of her mother, Else Kirschner, adored child of Daniel Kirschner and Minna Cohn: "I was the little, beloved, child of affectionate parents, Jewish parents, who are the most affectionate of all." Her brother Friedel died of Spanish flu in 1918. Little Else was all they had.

Except often she was not with them, physically or in spirit. Instead, she embraced the Bohemian life of Weimar Berlin. She didn't like the Jewish world and "couldn't stand the people in our circle. They all dealt in fabrics, leather or fur, spoke in such an atrocious jargon, and were crude and uneducated."

She married the non-Jew, Fritz Schwiefelt, had affairs, as did he, and had a son -Peter - before finding herself in a ménage à trois with a close friend. Then came an affair with a man who later became a serious Nazi - and another child. And then marriage with a German Junker, and a third child: Angelika.