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What a rabbi and rebbetzin learnt when they went back to university

‘We need to find ways to ensure young people feel connected to their congregations when they return home’

April 16, 2026 14:54
Rabbi Dr Yoni and Rebbetzin Elisheva Birnbaum with Birmingham University students (Photo: courtesy)
Rabbi Dr Yoni and Rebbetzin Elisheva Birnbaum with Birmingham University students (Photo: courtesy)

I recently listened to an account that shook me to the core. A young Jewish student found himself sitting in a history lecture listening to a teacher create a crude moral equivalence between the genuine civilian suffering in Gaza as Israel rooted out Hamas terrorists and other times in history when people have been systematically targeted in their millions because of their skin colour, religion or ethnicity. The student rose to challenge the teacher – a lone voice in an otherwise silent room. Her response was as disturbing as it was predictable. The lecturer refused to engage, declaring that as someone felt “uncomfortable” by the conversation, she would be changing the topic.

As unpleasant as this sounds, it wasn’t this account that really shook me. It was the story told by the next student in the group. During a conversation with a group of acquaintances on campus, a member of the group casually commented how someone they knew was dating “an ugly Jew”. The person who made this remark had no idea that someone in the group was Jewish, who was left wondering how and whether to respond. When I heard this, I was truly shocked. But perhaps in light of the recent Union of Jewish Students’ poll, I shouldn’t have been so surprised. This includes the startling statistic that one in five UK university students would be reluctant to share their house with a Jew, and some would never do so. The “normalisation of antisemitism on campus”, as the authors of the report put it, has arrived.

In our capacity as senior rabbi and rebbetzin of Finchley United Synagogue (Kinloss), we recently went on an illuminating campus tour, visiting Kinloss students in Bristol, Nottingham, Leeds, Birmingham and Cambridge. Our aim was simple – to show our students that we care about them and the challenges they face, knowing that nothing compares to showing up in person. Even more significantly, we wanted to demonstrate that wherever in the world people are, they are always part of our extended community. After 700 miles of driving, we emerged with a fascinating snapshot of Jewish life on campus – including, but definitely not limited to, conversations like the one highlighted above. Here’s what we learnt from our trip.

Rabbi Dr Yoni Birnbaum (Photo: courtesy)Rabbi Dr Yoni Birnbaum (Photo: courtesy)[Missing Credit]

Make no mistake, the hostility students face on campus is real, even when simply attempting to openly display their Jewish identity. Students described thinking twice about whether to walk around with visible Jewish symbols, such as a kippah or Magen David. And in terms of Israel, Jewish societies face an intractable dilemma. Engaging with the wider student body is vital in order to dispel unhelpful myths about Jewish practice and culture. More fundamentally, this is partly what all student societies are there for – to engage with others and share the vibrancy of their community life. But students described how, if Israel becomes a prominent feature in the society’s calendar of events, or an Israeli flag is displayed at a gathering, it can rapidly become a magnet for hostility. And here lies the problem. Delete Israel from the scene and there’s a chance of becoming an outward-facing Jewish student body, happy to take its place among the many other societies on campus. But delete Israel from the scene, and a major element of the Jewish ecosystem is excised, along with a central aspect of Jewish identity, which no one wants. Simply put – can Jewish life on campus, sans Israel, really be called a “Jewish” experience?

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