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We need to address the elephant in the room

It is time to start talking to our Muslim friends about the Middle East – and to listen to one another

July 26, 2024 15:40
Birmingham Progressive Synagogue Iftar 2024
An interfaith Iftar meal, but, says Mark Adlestone, we also need to start talking about the Middle East with Muslim friends and communities
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As a leader, I have always championed the importance of building consensus. By practising this concept, it ensures everyone remains on the same page and aware of each other’s vision and strategic objectives. Of equal importance is the ability to disagree with one another respectfully so that one is receptive to other people’s views and ideas.

Since October 7, I have reflected on what is required to build consensus across our faith communities. This has historically revolved around respecting each other’s traditions and celebrating all the different festivals. I experienced this first hand as High Sheriff when I was welcomed with open arms into places of worship belonging to all faiths. My theme was one of “diversity and integration”. I always made a point of referencing the fact I was Jewish, and at no point did this cause any issues. I had the fortune of experiencing the rich tapestry of diverse communities which reside across Greater Manchester. I attended many services in various religious settings including taking part in Friday prayers at the Neeli Mosque in Rochdale. This was an amazing experience, but at one stage, I received a warning in passing from the imam that the young people were very upset about what was happening in Israel and Palestine. I had committed to speaking with those who held these views, but unfortunately, Covid arrived, and my term of office ended.

As bridges built over many years came crashing down with alarming speed after October 7, I revisited in my mind the conversation in Rochdale. It struck me that these interfaith engagements were largely facile as they never discussed the elephant in the room which is the Middle East. Any reference to what was happening in Israel or Palestine was considered too difficult. The upshot of this was that when the huge crisis emerged on October 7, there was absolutely no mutual respect or understanding of each other's position. Long established relationships and friendships collapsed almost instantaneously.

The interfaith networks kicked into action and sought to bring people together. I attended a silent vigil at Manchester Cathedral designed to recognise all innocent victims of the conflict. It was attended by the Mayor and Deputy Mayor of the Greater Manchester Combined Authority and all religions were represented. However, the people in the room were the same amazing individuals who attend all interfaith engagement across Greater Manchester. It then struck me that we needed to find a way of holding conversations that are not discussed in interfaith spaces.