We’re helping LGBT+ Jews feel more connected to their communities

Jewish life is defined by our rituals. We are born, named in a synagogue, have a Brit Milah, a Bnei Mitzvah. We stand under the Chuppah and are buried in Jewish cemeteries. That is the same for all Jews, LGBT+ or not. LGBT+ Jews exist in every part of the Jewish world, some loudly, some more quietly. On a personal level, connecting more deeply with Jewish ritual has sustained me. Sharing Friday night dinners and prayer services with other LGBT+ Jews has strengthened my inner pride in being both Jewish and a gay man.

Building on the universal role of ritual in Jewish life, KeshetUK launched our Belonging in Ritual project at Limmud Festival 2025 to ensure every Jew can engage fully in their communities. This groundbreaking initiative is, as far as we know, the first of its kind in the world. Its aim is simple yet profound- to help LGBT+ Jews in the UK find meaningful connection with Jewish ritual and, by extension, strengthen their ties to community. Post October 7th, many of us have found solace within our communities which has led to many of us rediscovering traditions, rituals, and customs that have sustained us for millennia.

Yet, despite the role of ritual in Jewish life, some LGBT+ Jews still feel disconnected from aspects of Jewish ritual life. Sometimes it’s a well-meaning community unsure how to approach certain Torah portions. Sometimes it’s a same-sex couple searching for a synagogue that will greet them with warmth. Or a family navigating emotional decisions after the death of an LGBT+ relative. At a time when many of us are turning to Jewish ritual and tradition for belonging, building inclusive communities has never been more important. Belonging in Ritual is KeshetUK’s response.

The first stage of the project focuses on gathering existing ritual templates from across the UK Jewish community via an online portal. These might include a same-sex ketubah, a blessing read in synagogue to welcome LGBT+ members, or examples of small but meaningful steps communities have taken to embrace LGBT+ Jews. KeshetUK has always worked across all denominations, and this project is no different. Submissions are welcome from every part of the UK Jewish community including Orthodox, Masorti and Progressive Judaism because LGBT+ Jews exist and thrive across denominations.