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Looking for love? New scheme helps singles find their beshert with timeless Jewish wisdom and real relationship tools
The Date Smarter program has resulted in three marriages so far
July 21, 2025 10:59
The Date Smarter program has resulted in three marriages so far
July 21, 2025 10:59AISH and Partners in Torah have launched Date Smarter, a mentorship-based program designed to bring depth, clarity and renewed emotional connection to the Jewish dating experience.
Through the programme, participants are paired with a mentor from a similar Jewish background to help them navigate the dating world with greater insight and resilience.
The scheme, which begins in mid-July, includes three weekly, 30-minute sessions. It culminates in what is expected to be the largest online Jewish speed dating event of the year, taking place digitally on August 12.
Last year’s event drew over 6,500 participants and led to dozens of matches, several marriages and over 40% of participants forming connections that lasted beyond a second date.
Revital, an Israeli who took part in last year’s scheme, said: “The material was both surprising and interesting, and I loved the Jewish twist.”
Another former participant, based in the US, added: “I don’t know how the match with my study partner could’ve been any more perfect… I feel like I’ve been talking to a friend that I’ve known my whole life.”
And Rabbi Eli Gewirtz, founder and international director of Partners in Torah, commented: “After seeing the impact of last year’s speed dating event, we realised that many people needed more than just opportunity; they needed guidance.
“Date Smarter isn’t about matchmaking. It’s about helping singles rediscover who they are, through honest reflection, Jewish values and emotional mentorship, before they even go on the date.”
The programme helps participants face the psychological impact of modern dating, including rejection, confusion and the often disorienting nature of dating apps, by fostering deeper self-understanding and healthier relationship habits.
“The mentor acts as a guide through both Jewish texts and the emotional terrain of modern dating,” said Rabbi Steven Burg, CEO of AISH. “In many ways, the process mirrors therapy, offering support, validation, and new perspectives at a time when many singles feel exhausted and alone.”
Designed to be inclusive and approachable, Date Smarter warmly welcomes Jewish singles of all backgrounds, regardless of affiliation or level of observance.
Registration is closes today (21 July). Find out more here.
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