Outrageous to suggest rabbis are failing the community

As Lebrecht rightly observed, most people will have “Zoomed away” regardless of rabbinic sanctioning. Just because he or Ms Shaviv lack the power of their own convictions doesn’t mean rabbis need to step in to assuage their consciences.

But there is a much bigger issue here. The challenge of offering pastoral care can be arduous at the best of times. Having lost no less than ten members in the past month (most of them friends for more than two decades) and with another dozen members who have lost loved ones, it is, in the present climate, nothing less than overwhelming. But, as president of the United Synagogue — and my member — Michael Goldstein flatteringly observed in a letter to the JC, the support was “outstanding.” I am confident that every recently bereaved member across the US and beyond would say the same about their rabbi.

The added challenge of keeping the community engaged, whether with Kabbalat Shabbat, Havdalah, morning and evening services, shiva services, daily classes, and a range of other programmes, including youth and children, all in a virtual world, is utterly formidable. The fact that virtual engagement has more than tripled reflects what people want and how rabbis are getting it right.

When that lamentable wedding happened in Golders Green the other week, I explained to one perplexed colleague that many haven’t been personally touched by the pandemic and therefore remain woefully ignorant as to the real danger.

If judgement of the Rabbinate’s response in the current pandemic is based solely on what did or didn’t happen at Seder night then, at best, both Ms Shaviv and Mr Lebrecht  are also woefully ignorant — of the enormity of the challenge facing rabbis and how exceptionally they are all rising to it.

Yitzchak Shochet is the Rabbi at Mill Hill Synagogue