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Daniel Finkelstein

ByDaniel Finkelstein, Daniel Finkelstein

Opinion

It's courage versus arrogance in the Mirvis Limmud row

October 17, 2013 11:09
2 min read

Look, I hope you won’t mind what I have to say here. It’s just that, well, I think it needs to be said, however diffident I am about it.

My general principle is that I don’t argue with other Jews about Judaism. Everyone’s religious practice is deeply personal. It reflects generations of family practice and centuries of political history. My view is that we are all brothers and sisters together, and that we have enough enemies without making enemies of each other.

I am a Liberal Jew, and the practices of ultra-Orthodox communities are sometimes hard for me to understand, but I grope for that understanding. In my work I often meet non-Jews who are dismissive about, or hostile to, such Orthodoxy. I want to be able to explain to them, to teach them, I suppose, why very traditional, very rigid, religious practice can bring joy to participants. And for that I need to understand and accept.

Most of the time that acceptance even extends to the fact that my understanding and appreciation of ultra-Orthodoxy is not reciprocated. It’s just that right here and right now is not that time.