Idea #18 - Create a website for Jewish women

Such a basically monolithic representation can be alienating especially for those whose ideas and values may be formed by less conventional life-styles.  In 2009 the women who contributed to the study Connection, Continuity and Community: British Jewish Women Speak Out made it abundantly clear this is so.  They responded from London, Leeds, Manchester, Scotland and small groups away from these major centres.  Their responses articulated the gap between institutionally defined norms and the day-to-day reality of British Jewish life.   

Women account for more than half of British Jewry. Those who spoke out last year are secularly highly educated and they care deeply about the community.  They want to be part of an inclusive community where the leaders accommodate the social changes that are affecting us all.  They want to connect with each other across the community’s religious divides.  They applauded the opportunity to do so afforded by the study. 

All want better Jewish education for their children – especially their daughters – wherever they live.  It’s available in Hendon but not in Hereford or Hampshire.  They recognise that they are not qualified enough to provide this themselves and know that without it the British Jewish future is in peril - but feel it shouldn’t depend on Jewish day schools in ‘ghetto areas’.  They are emotionally attached to the idea of community but question whether it needs to be defined through congregations. 

The community needs to de-compartmentalise, to permit ideas and activities to flow across the community – from one ‘denomination’ to the other.  Women have shown that they are ready to recognise the benefits of working together regardless of personal religious affiliations.  The League of Jewish Women and Wizo show how well.  Sadly, there is no one-stop focal point to continue this conversation, to allow it to develop and inform community thinking.   

It can be done technically quite easily in today’s world of Facebook, Twitter and other virtual communities.  What we need is a Jewish Women’s Website to promote and facilitate cross-community exchange and co-operation.  At the moment the women who spearheaded the study are thinking through how. 

First and foremost it should be independent of any synagogal affiliation or supervision; moral support is of course another matter.  Placing a conversation page on a more generally focused site could be another way. 

Musmnet shows us that if there is a will there is a way.  And, of course the conversation must not exclude men.

 

Marlena Schmool is a freelance research consultant and Project Director 2009 for ‘British Jewish Women Speak Out’

Check out our previous ideas: 17 - Create a UK Centre for Jewish Education 16 - Learn to talk to each other about difficult subjects 15 - Merge some of our charities and community services 14 - Hold joint events for JSocs and Islamic societies every term 13 - Create a virtual community 12 - Turn Anglo-Jewry into a learning community 11 - Turn Shabbat into the Greenest day of the week 10 - Focus on people, not institutions 9 - Create an online platform for Jewish students, 8 - Appoint anti-antisemitism champions, 7 - Share our synagogues and community centres with other religions,  6 - Establish a Succah in Trafalgar Square, 5 - Create a 'community service' programme for young Jews, 4 - Recruit older people to volunteer for the community,3 - Establish a fund for the Jewish arts, 2 - Pay membership fees to your community, not your shul, 1 - Make 2010/11 the year of synagogue renewal