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Geoffrey Alderman

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Geoffrey Alderman

Opinion

A mystery of life and death

November 7, 2011 11:09
3 min read

Today I'm going to tell you a story. It's a story you may well have heard before, at least in part, for it featured in the Jewish Chronicle some years ago as an anonymised "Ask the Rabbi" item.

I'm not going to identify the protagonists by name, because my purpose in retelling this story is certainly not to add further to the considerable mental anguish that has already been caused. My purpose is to tease out a disturbing aspect of the tale that no-one has so far revealed, but which I believe needs to be exposed in the public interest.

Some years ago the death occurred of a woman who we shall refer to as Mrs B. Her late husband had been buried in that section of a provincial municipal cemetery reserved for members of the local Orthodox synagogue.

Mrs B was naturally buried next to her husband. Their unmarried and childless daughter, whom I shall call Stella (not her real name), wished, when the time came, to rest alongside her parents. So Stella applied to join this local Orthodox synagogue.

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