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Story of abused mum moves JWA supporters

May 12, 2016 12:01
Alison Steadman

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Sandy Rashty,

Sandy Rashty

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An emotional letter from a domestic abuse victim was read out by actress Alison Steadman at Tuesday's annual fundraising lunch for Jewish Women's Aid.

The letter was from a young mother, given the pseudonym Becca, who left her husband a year ago after receiving support from JWA.

"For a while I just suffered quietly, thinking what I was going through was normal," she wrote. "At the end of the day, Dan never hit me, or even threatened any violence towards me or my daughter. When I finally had the courage to pick up the phone and call you, I still struggled to believe what I was going through was called 'abuse'.

"In fact, I very nearly didn't turn up the first time I came to see you. I was scared of facing the truth. Scared of what the repercussions would be if he ever found out. I panicked because I had taken time off work and Dan might notice it on my pay cheque and question me. Just the typical type of controlling behaviour he displayed."

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