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As Prince William and Kate Middleton take their vows, we ask about the secret of wedded bliss.

April 28, 2011 10:21
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ByRobyn Rosen, Robyn Rosen

4 min read

Rabbi Michael Laitner runs the United Synagogue's Newlyweds Programme which helps couples learn practical Jewish approaches to married life. He has some advice which he thinks might be useful to a certain young couple who are tying the knot today: "An old Midrashic adage states that a groom is compared to a king as long, add the rabbis, as he treats his bride like a queen."

After today's royal wedding, it may not be too tough for Prince William to treat his bride, Kate Middleton, like a queen, or at least like a princess.

But if they are to break the pattern of marital disasters in the royal family, they might want to listen to some other wise Jewish words of advice.

Pamela and Harold Fisher married at New West End Synagogue in April 1951 when Pamela was just 19. Like William and Kate, they had to get over some hurdles before they could live happily ever after.