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This is for all those 'useless' mothers

May 14, 2015 12:09
14052015 The one about the Haberman Sippy Cow Cup

BySandy Rashty, Sandy Rashty

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There was nothing Mandy Haberman could do to feed her baby - she felt "redundant and useless as a mother". Her youngest daughter Emily was born in 1980 with a syndrome that made it difficult, if not impossible, to latch on to a breast or bottle to feed.

As a result, Haberman watched her child become "skeletal" after being diagnosed with Stickler syndrome, a genetic progressive condition which affects connective tissue and led Emily to develop a cleft palate.

"She just could not latch on," recalls Haberman. "Doctors told me to feed her with a spoon, but it was disastrous. She would scream.

"It affects how you feel about the baby. You feel redundant and useless as a mother."