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Recipe for seduction

By Simon Round, February 12, 2009

What are the essentials for seducing a man? A splash of expensive perfume, perhaps? A little black dress? Seductive body language? Well, according to author Penny Lewis, it is none of the above. What you need is a nice piece of steak, a tomato and a spud.

Lewis, with co-writer Sarah Lockett, has written The Dish, which is intended to show women how to incorporate food in a strategy to win men over. You should cook for your date, she feels, but don’t go making elaborate soufflés or that perfect sauce hollandaise — because the key to success is simplicity.

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I came, I saw, I haggled; and then I paid full price

By Alex Kasriel, February 5, 2009

I’m standing in Carmelli bakery in Golders Green smiling sweetly at the good-looking man behind the counter, trying to persuade him to give me some money off the price of two medium challahs.

“You mean, you don’t do anything like buy one, get one half-price. Or anything else?” I ask hopefully, knowing that buying two is actually what is expected.

“No,” he says.

“Oh, go on,” I say, uncomfortably.

“I can’t. I’m sorry.”

“What about if I get one big one for less?”

“I’m sorry, I can’t give you a discount.”

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Do the Hokey Cokey? So that’s what it’s all about

By Alex Kasriel, January 29, 2009

‘You put your left foot in, your left foot out; in out, in out, shake it all about.” The words may be familiar, but for many Catholics, the Hokey Cokey is reviled as an anti-Papist song written by Puritans in the 18th century which has been an expression of sectarian hatred ever since.

The song was the subject of a controversy as recently as last month when the Protestant fans of Glasgow Rangers football club were banned from singing it at Celtic Park, the home ground of their bitter Catholic rivals, Celtic.

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PR guru’s work-life message

By Alex Kasriel, January 22, 2009

The idea of doing the dusting while listening to newspaper podcasts in order to spend time more productively might seem like multi-tasking gone mad. But that is what self-confessed serial networker and public relations supremo Julia Hobsbawm recommends in her new book, The See Saw: 100 Ideas for Work-Life Balance.

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The Anglican priest who had a bris

By Alex Kasriel, January 15, 2009

The vicar of Putney has an uncomfortable feeling that his son should have had a bris.

The Reverend Dr Giles Fraser, a regular contributor to BBC Radio 4’s Thought For The Day, has two girls and a boy with his Scandinavian wife, Sally. So far, so normal, except for the fact that his father is Jewish and he himself was circumcised.

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Writing on the wall for kosher eateries?

By Simon Round, January 14, 2009

One of the scariest statistics for restaurateurs over the past few weeks must have been the rise in the sales of televisions. People hit by the recession are planning to stay in a lot more in 2009, and are sorting out their domestic entertainment accordingly. When finances are tight, people start to cut back on going out - and that includes visiting restaurants. So is the kosher dining industry, which has always struggled with high costs and consequently higher prices, about to feel the chill of the economic downturn?

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How to enjoy Xmas the Jewish way

By Alex Kasriel, December 23, 2008

So the rest of the country may be eating turkey, pulling crackers and singing carols. But what are Jews doing on Christmas Day? While there are plenty who join in the fun — up to a point — others feel more comfortable doing something else. Whether it’s working, learning, volunteering or playing, here are just some Jews who have found plenty of Yuletide distraction.

The Doctor

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How to have a very kosher Christmas

By Bernard Josephs, December 23, 2008

It’s that time of year again, a season that raises the perennial question: what are we to do about Christmas? While our non-Jewish neighbours, despite the credit crunch, are busily stocking their freezers with all manner of exotic goodies, buying up crates of wine and beer and donning Santa outfits, should we restrict ourselves to dull, everyday menus brightened only by re-runs of Morecambe and Wise?

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How to Calm a Challenging Child

By Roma Felstein, November 27, 2008

Israeli-born family psychotherapist and parenting consultant Miriam Chachamu has some wise words for parents who find it hard to relinquish control of their children. "Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you."

They are not her words, but come from the 20th-century Lebanese writer and philosopher Khalil Gibran.

Nevertheless they sum up for her "one of the fundamental principles of parenting - nurturing but letting go".

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How bad will it get for homeowners?

By Simon Round, November 27, 2008

Eighteen months ago, amid the first whispers that property was heading for a downturn, the JC conducted a major survey on the state of the market. We asked finance experts, economist and property professionals where the market was going. The majority gave bland assurances that property values would remain stable or continue to rise. A couple said that there could be minor "corrections", but only three warned of the kind of crash we have experienced in the past 12 months.

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