Jewish Ways

Jewish Valentine's Day

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, August 7, 2014

Tu B'Av, the fifteenth day of the month of Av, is a sort of Jewish Valentine's Day. The Talmud describes it as, together with Yom Kippur, the most joyful day in the Jewish calendar - a provocative pairing (Ta'anit 30b). On Tu b'Av the maidens of Israel went out to the fields to dance and find a match.


Yahrzeit candles

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, July 31, 2014

Lighting a memorial candle for departed loved ones on the Hebrew anniversary of their deaths is a very widespread Jewish practice. However, the way we do it might be missing the point.

The Rosh, Rabbeinu Asher, wrote in the14th century that it is good to donate candles and oil lamps to the synagogue for use on Yom Kippur, "to atone for one's mother and father".


Mezuzahs on bomb shelters

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, July 24, 2014

Millions of Israelis are spending much of their time in bomb shelters these days. Do these rooms in basements and underground require a mezuzah?

We are commanded to inscribe the words of the Torah "on the doorposts of your house and on your gates". From here, the sages learn that a mezuzah is only for a space that is fit for dwelling.


Running to do mitzvot

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, July 20, 2014

If you have a chance to do a mitzvah, do it right now! Not after a cup of tea and the football's finished. Who knows, maybe you will get distracted, or something else will come up or the opportunity to do something good will slip away and the moment be lost. We can always find excuses and persuasive reasons to procrastinate and do it later. This is an insistent refrain in Jewish sources.


Reciting psalms

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, July 10, 2014

The book of Psalms contains 150 poems covering the whole range of religious experience from joy and exultation to sadness and brokenness, from praise to perplexity, from longing for God's presence to grief at his absence, and more.


Adding time to Shabbat

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, July 6, 2014

In Britain, we are used to beginning Shabbat early in the summer so that dinner will not be too late; beginning to eat at 9.30 just doesn't work for most families. But, how do the rabbis justify declaring the start of Shabbat on Friday afternoon before sunset?


Engagement party

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, June 26, 2014

In Charedi circles, an engagement party is called a vort, Yiddish for "word." This refers to the words of Torah and blessing usually said at the gathering.

When a couple first announce their engagement, they might arrange a l'chaim, a simple party.

The vort, on the other hand, is a planned engagement party, usually bigger than the informal l'chaim.

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Owning a pet dog

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, June 22, 2014

Conventional wisdom has it that Jews don't much like dogs. Some put this down to bad historical experiences. 


Praying with feet together

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, June 15, 2014

When we pray the silent Amidah (the "standing" prayer), we stand straight with  our feet close together. As the Shulchan Aruch says, "One next to the other, as though they were but one," in order, it explains, to be like the angels.


Observing yahrzeit

By Rabbi Julian Sinclair, June 6, 2014

It is a very widespread custom to observe the Hebrew anniversary of a parent's death, yahrzeit (from the German, yahr, "year", and zeit, "time"). It is common to light memorial candles and say prayers in shul; some visit the grave.