Shtetl myths


By Miriam Shaviv
July 8, 2010
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A new book by Shaul Stampfer, Families, Rabbis, and Education, shatters some myths about life in 19th century eastern Europe:

To name a few: early marriages were not the norm but took place only among the elite, and then only during a relatively brief period; the traditional family was far less patriarchal than we think, with women exercising real power albeit in the absence of formal authority; women were also far more literate than we think, often more so than men; the Jewish elderly tended to live on their own, not in the midst of family; the Gaon of Vilna was indeed a genius, but not recognized as such in his lifetime. 

I find the myths to do with women's status and family structure particularly interesting, as there are similar misunderstandings about women and family in medieval times. Then, too, women were far more powerful - economically, in the family, in terms of Jewish ritual - than we tend to imagine, throwing the idea of "traditional" women's roles completely out the window.

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Blacklisted Dictator

Thu, 07/08/2010 - 14:14

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Miriam,
A lot of people have the same problem as the Gaon of Vilna. It sometimes creates an existential crisis. How does one continue, after all, when the "damnfool" retort is used?


Joshua18

Thu, 07/08/2010 - 17:22

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Blacklisted Dictator, I studied with the Gaon of Vilna. I knew the the Gaon of Vilna. The Gaon of Vilna was a friend of mine. Blacklisted Dictator, you're no Gaon of Vilna.


Blacklisted Dictator

Thu, 07/08/2010 - 18:16

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Joshua,

This is extremely interesting news. I wish I had met the Gaon of Vilna.

Could you kindly write a blog recounting your meetings and inter-actions with him?


Blacklisted Dictator

Thu, 07/08/2010 - 18:24

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"By the time he was twenty years old, rabbis were submitting their most difficult halakhic problems to him. Scholars, Jewish and non-Jewish sought his insights into mathematics and astronomy. He returned to his native town in 1748, having by then acquired considerable renown." (wikipedia)


Joshua18

Thu, 07/08/2010 - 18:48

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"He returned to his native town in 1748"

A leap year, I remember it well.


Yvetta

Thu, 07/08/2010 - 20:00

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I think it's been generally accepted that Jewish women were literate - far more literate than their gentile contemporaries.
Glueckel of Hameln's memoirs are still a must-read for all wanting an insight into the life of a woman in a mercantile family, with connections across several borders.


JLCohen

Fri, 07/09/2010 - 10:23

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Toda, Miriam, for bringing this book to my attention. I've been interested for some years in why it was that Jewish women formed - and still do form - such an important and vocal part of the feminist movement, which may stem at least partly from the intellectual lives of shtetl women being far better (to our modern eyes, at any rate) than that of their severely repressed gentile contemporaries. So, this book is an absolute "must read" for me. :-)

Shabbat shalom, all.


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Fri, 07/09/2010 - 10:31

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